I feel like it’s not okay, this type of situation isn’t something to just brush off the shoulder. I was intoxicated and something that I dread happening to myself happened to someone I care for. Finding out now is the worst thing ever. I understand you guys are the bestest friends now and I’m just there as a friend, but knowing that I was informed about it last night and didn’t even help you in such a situation just makes me feel like the worst person possible. Saying ‘dw _____ was’ just makes me feel even worst. I’m just feeling down now, I’m the worst.